Welcome to our Resource Hub

This is your space to pause, reset, and realign.

Inside the Resource Hub, you’ll find thoughtfully curated tools designed to support your growth mind, body, and soul. From Dr. Sherita’s grounding Morning Routine, to the transformative Goal Setting Workshop, to her personally curated Reading List, each resource is here to help you live with more intention, clarity, and joy.

Introducing the Morning Routine Workbook your go-to guide for crafting a personalized, energizing start to your day. This is packed with practical tips and advice to help you design a morning routine that sets you up for a productive, balanced, and fulfilling day.

Unlock your full potential with our Goal Setting Workshop Video, a comprehensive guide to mastering the art of setting and achieving meaningful goals. This video is designed to walk you through proven strategies that will help you clarify your vision, break down your objectives, and create actionable plans for success

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I am the Boss Journal. This 7-day journaling experience is curated to help you reconnect with yourself and reclaim. It is not about doing more, it’s about feeling more. More peace. More clarity. More permission to say “yes” to you.

Each prompt is designed to gently peel back the layers of “shoulds” and help you find your way to the woman you were before the world drowned her out.

Self Care Audit: How Well Are You Taking Care of You? Discover Your Self Care Score in Just 5 Minutes. Take a moment to honestly assess how you're caring for yourself across all dimensions of wellbeing

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Dr. Sherita's Reading List

Elevate your self-development, habits, positive mindset, and transformation journey with our carefully curated book recommendations. Whether you're looking to sharpen your skills, dive into personal development, or explore new perspectives, this list has something for everyone.

A Space for Insight & Inspiration

In this space, Dr. Sherita shares thoughtful insights, personal reflections, and practical wisdom to support your journey of growth, healing, and intentional living. These blog posts are meant to meet you where you are, offering perspective, encouragement, and gentle truth as you navigate life, leadership, and becoming more of who you were created to be.

Pause. Read. Reflect.


Let what resonates guide your next step.

Self Care

Stop Trying to Fit In, You Were Born to Stand Out

June 27, 20241 min read

A couple of weeks ago I had the opportunity to spend 3 days with some of the most intelligent, compassionate, phenomenal women physicians I have ever met. These women are movers and shakers, real change agents in their fields of endeavor. In spite of their collective accolades and accomplishments, almost 100% expressed doubts about their contributions and the value they bring to the world.

This was an eye opening revelation for me and one that I will keep in mind going forward. We don’t see ourselves the ways others do. Our minds bend toward negativity.  We amplify our perceived short comings and minimize our many gifts.

So, the next time I hear the negative chatter in my head telling me that I’m not smart enough, skilled enough or anything else enough, I’m going to remember that even superstars have completely false thoughts about themselves. Just because I think it doesn’t make it true! Instead, when the negativity comes, I’m going to challenge it with positivity and cold hard facts!

My friends, I encourage you to do the same. Don’t accept your negative thoughts as reality. We are everything enough at baseline. Stop comparing yourself to other people. You were not designed to be them just as they were not designed to be you. You have already accomplished so much and you have the skill set needed to do and be whatever you desire. Embrace your greatness and adopt a new mantra–I am more than enough, I am one of the best!


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Sherita Gaskins-Tillett

Sherita Gaskins-Tillett, board-certified Ob/Gyn, mother, wife, daughter, sister, friend, wellness enthusiast, event planner. I am on a mission to help women, ALL WOMEN, own their power to create lives that they absolutely LOVE! I want to see women thriving and living intentional lives of purpose, abundance and massive impact.

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