You’re the Architect—

The Life of Your

Dreams is Waiting to be Built

You’ve checked all the boxes.

You have the career, the family, the things you always wanted.

But deep down, there’s a quiet ache for something more.

More meaning. More joy. More you

You only get one life.

This isn’t a rehearsal.

Every day you spend overextended, exhausted, and disengaged

is one less day of bold, brilliant, aligned, connected, soul-nourishing life.

You’ve done what was expected.

Now it’s time to create the masterpiece that was always meant to be.

Welcome to Boss Lady Dream Builders

Where high-achieving women come to remember who they are, reconnect with what matters, and redesign their lives from the inside out — without burning it all down. Because your needs are not optional. And your joy is not a luxury.

A Boss Lady is a woman who is confident, powerful and intentional. She knows what she wants and goes for it. She enthusiastically embraces new opportunities. She is not afraid to take risks because she knows that there is a lesson in every setback. She does not compete with other women, instead, she celebrates their achievements and lifts them up when they are facing challenges. A Boss Lady is a designer original who knows her infinite worth and never settles for less.

Like every woman, you want to be the boss of your own life…

But instead, you’re stuck in service to everything and everyone else — the job, the partner, the kids, the parents, the pets, the expectations.

Somewhere along the way, your deepest needs were drowned out by the noise of life’s demands.

Now, you’re tired. Overworked. Accomplished, but living on autopilot.

You want change, but you have no idea where to begin.

You’re not broken. You’re buried. It’s time to rediscover you.

Step Into the Life That Was Always Yours

You weren’t born to play a supporting role in your own story.

You deserve to be the lead—center stage, fully expressed, deeply fulfilled.

At Boss Lady Dream Builders, we help high-achieving women like you reconnect with the truth of who you are and chart a path toward the life you actually want—without burning down the one you have.

Through our signature 5-pillar framework, we guide you to:

  • Reconnect with your identity – Because if you don’t know who you are, everything else feels off.

  • Clarify what you truly want – Beyond roles, titles, and expectations own your wildest dreams.

  • Believe it's possible for you – You are capable and deserving of every good thing this life has to offer.

  • Create a soul-aligned plan – A roadmap deeply rooted in your values and priorities.

  • Take powerful action – Because dreaming without movement keeps you stuck.

This is the beginning of your return—to joy, to purpose, to YOU!

The door is open. Will you walk through?

Begin your journey with these free tools.

Elevating Women, One Platform at a Time

Choose Your Soul-Aligned Starting Point

A Weekend For Me

A Weekend For Me retreat – a transformative escape designed exclusively for women professionals.

The Dream Accelerator

Join the Dream Accelerator Membership—your all-in-one portal for unstoppable women ready to turn big ideas into bold realities

Book Me to Speak or Coach

Schedule a quick chat with Dr. Sherita

You were created on purpose for a purpose.

“There is an immensely joyful, deeply satisfying version of your life on the other side of your comfort zone.

Let’s build it together."

The Latest From My Blog

Self Care

Don’t Be A Rotten Egg

October 27, 20243 min read

“It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. we must be hatched or go bad. ” –C.S. Lewis

How comfortable are you? When was the last time you shook things up? After we get the comfortable house we wanted, the comfortable job we wanted, the comfortable family we wanted we start coasting on autopilot. We relish the predictable nature of our lives. Some of us even eat the same meals, wear the same clothes, talk to the same 2 or 3 people and participate in the same activities in the exact same order year in and year out. Why? Because it is comfortable and familiar, and we have mastered this process. In and of itself, comfort is not a bad thing; however, too much comfort breeds complacency. We get so content with the status quo that we don’t even look for change. This is a dangerous place to be. Where there is no growth or transformation, there is stagnation and death.

In the C.S. Lewis quote, an egg can be a perfectly good egg, but if it is to reach its full potential, it cannot remain an egg. To fulfil its purpose, it has to develop and become a chicken. Similarly, a caterpillar can be an excellent caterpillar, but it cannot achieve the fullness of beauty for which it was intended unless it undergoes the transformative process in the cocoon. Just like the egg and the caterpillar, we cannot remain the same if we endeavor to reach our greatest potential and be used for our highest purpose.

We have to be willing to explore the area outside of our comfort zone and be open to new ideas and different ways of doing things. As physicians, this is sometimes a challenge for us because we were given a script to follow for the first 11+ years of our medical journey. Then we finished residency or fellowship and found ourselves looking at a blank page.

Some of us are tempted to believe that because we see a blank page, our education and personal development has reached its pinnacle. However, this couldn’t be farther from the truth. Now that the script has ended, the magic can begin! The possibilities and available opportunities are limited only by our imaginations. True transformation begins in our minds. We can explore completely new interests, innovate fresh new ways of practicing medicine or challenge the societal norms surrounding healthcare.  We have the skill, the knowledge and the power to do or become anything or anyone we desire.

I encourage you to never stop exploring ways in which you can continue to grow and up level your life. Remember, the egg that doesn’t hatch rots and all of its potential is lost. Don’t be a rotten egg!


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Sherita Gaskins-Tillett

Sherita Gaskins-Tillett, board-certified Ob/Gyn, mother, wife, daughter, sister, friend, wellness enthusiast, event planner. I am on a mission to help women, ALL WOMEN, own their power to create lives that they absolutely LOVE! I want to see women thriving and living intentional lives of purpose, abundance and massive impact.

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