Have you ever been so busy keeping up with your life that you lost track of yourself?

I have.

I was a full-time Ob/Gyn, wife, and mother. I was trying so hard to keep up with everything.

My patients needed me. My husband needed me. My daughter needed me. There were appointments, responsibilities, things to remember, and people counting on me.

And I was doing my best to handle it all.

On the outside, I appeared to be succeeding.

But the inside was another matter entirely.

Somewhere in the middle of all that doing, I lost sight of Sherita.

Not Sherita the physician. Or the wife. Or the mother. Just Sherita.

What did she enjoy? What did she want? What did she need? I wasn't spending much time asking.

And the more women I work with, the more I see how many different roads lead us to that same place.

A marriage ends. The kids grow up. A parent needs care. Someone you love dies. Work becomes harder to face. Or nothing dramatic happens you just realize you aren't sure who you are or what you want anymore.

Life changes. We adjust. We take care of what needs to be done.

But how often do we stop and ask what those changes mean for us?

Maybe you don't need to become better at juggling everything.

Maybe you need a little room to ask: Who am I now? What matters to me now? What do I want from this season of my life?

I wish I'd asked myself those questions sooner.

So I'm asking you: When was the last time you checked in with the woman underneath all the roles and responsibilities?

If that question is hard to answer, let's talk. Book a Next Chapter Call with me, and we'll start exploring what has changed, what you want, and what needs your attention next.

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You only get one life. Start living like the priority that you are.