Have you ever looked around and asked yourself, “Whose life is this”?

I admit it's a strange question when, by most measures, you've built a good life.

You chose the career. You love your family. You accepted the responsibilities. You said yes to the opportunities.

Many of the decisions that created your life were decisions you would make all over again. And yet, somewhere along the way, it's possible to look around and realize that it’s hard to see you in your life anymore.

Work gets your time. Family gets your time. The house gets your attention. Your calendar is filled with commitments. People depend on you because you're dependable.

And because you're capable, you keep making it work.

But here's what I've learned:

Being good at maintaining your life doesn't mean you shouldn't examine it.

Every now and then you need to stop long enough to ask:

Where am I in all of this?

What do I want? What matters to me? What parts of this life still fit beautifully? What have I outgrown? What am I doing because I consciously choose it and what am I doing because I've never stopped to question it?

This isn't about being selfish. It's about becoming conscious and intentional about where and how you spend your time and energy.

This is your one and only life. You not only deserve a place in it, you should have the starring role!

And if you're beginning to realize that you can’t see yourself in your life anymore or that the life you're living doesn't reflect what you want, I don't want you to read this, nod your head and go right back to business as usual.

Book a Next Chapter Call with me.

We'll talk about where you are, what you want, and what may be standing between you and what's next.

This is your life. You are the author. You deserve an extraordinary life that grows as you grow. Don’t settle for good enough when you could have spectacular.

Question it. Examine it. Then adjust it as many times as necessary to make it feel like you again.

You only get one life. Start living like the priority that you are.