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Being capable has a down side

Being capable has a down side

August 20, 20261 min read

Some weeks the problem is not that you stopped believing in your dream.

It is that there is no room left to tend it.

You can have rich soil and steady light and still watch nothing grow because something else got there first.

The obligations that were never actually yours to carry.

The guilt that shows up the second you consider saying no.

The mental tabs that never fully close the ones still running even when you are technically off the clock.

Weeds do not ask permission. They just take the water and light meant for what you actually planted.

I have caught myself here more times than I would like to admit. Doing all the right things for my dream and still wondering why nothing was breaking through, when the real problem was how much else was competing for the same limited space.

On the hard weeks, I have learned to ask myself a different question:

What do I actually need right now?

Not What does everyone else need from me?

Not What should I be doing?

What do I need?

It is a small question. It rarely gets asked out loud. And sometimes it is the first honest thing that happens before anything changes.

You do not need to add one more thing to your list to answer it.

You need somewhere to sit with it uninterrupted long enough to hear yourself.

That is exactly why I created Power Down to Power Up.

You do not have to keep carrying everything just because you have gotten good at carrying it.

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Sherita Gaskins-Tillett

Sherita Gaskins-Tillett, board-certified Ob/Gyn, mother, wife, daughter, sister, friend, wellness enthusiast, event planner. I am on a mission to help women, ALL WOMEN, own their power to create lives that they absolutely LOVE! I want to see women thriving and living intentional lives of purpose, abundance and massive impact.

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